A Girl's Garden
slim-jim arm
Father's teasing nickname for her thin arms. The hyphenated compound is playful dialect—he's encouraging her while acknowledging she's small for farm work.
not-nice load
The poem's only euphemism. She'll say 'dung' directly but uses prissy understatement for the social embarrassment of being seen with manure. The contrast shows her real concern isn't the work but being watched.
never by way of advice
Key turn. She's learned something about failure and scale but refuses to lecture others with it. The poem respects her restraint—she's wise enough not to weaponize her own experience.
same person twice
Final joke undercuts any sentimentality. She's not annoying about her garden story—she spreads it around instead of boring the same audience. Self-awareness as social grace.